Double your pleasure (and fun) by making your orgasm last longer. Try these tricks at home:

   1. Recognize your pleasure and don’t get anxious or too lost in your own head. To help with this, get condoms that fit and let you feel the most. Kimonos are a favorite of many men.

   2. Learn to relax and surrender to your orgasm and embrace it. You might want to give each other massages before having sex. Pick up a book on erotic massage.

   3. Like GI Joe said, “Knowing is half the battle.” Learn about your body, sex and techniques. Pick up as many sexuality how-to books as you can.

   4. Always use foreplay on you and her. Stimulate one another by fantasizing out loud and getting to know each other’s bodies. This can only lead to mind-blowing orgasms. Get a kama sutra lotions and potions kit.

   5. Don’t forget about touch, not just for foreplay but during sex. It heightens orgasms and helps you get in tune with your partner. Warming lube can give your touch more play when you need it.

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   6. Channel your energy—get out of your head and concentrate on your dick and how good it all feels. Sometimes, it helps to masturbate first. Masturbators are very handy to have around for this.

   7. Be an effective communicator—ask for what you need and let your lover know what turns you on. You might want to practice this with a little role-playing and pick up a couples bondage kit.

   8. Develop your pelvic floor muscles for more powerful orgasms. Research Kegel exercises, which works for women and men. Invest in a kegel exerciser to help you.

   9. Always keep lots of lube around for ease and less friction for both of you.

  10. Don’t focus on having a huge orgasm or instant gratification. Extended orgasms are something you get over time by trying all of these steps. Check out a tantric sex book.