Top 10 Sex Toys for Virgins
Before reading any further, please note this Top 10 list for Adult women (and men) aged 18 and older. Moving along…so if you’re in college and you’re still a virgin and not ready for the real thing, you can still pick up sex toys that will make you feel good and let you discover your own body.
1. It’s all about the clit and pleasuring yourself on the outside. Start with a Pocket Rocket vibe and it may be the only toy that you need.
2. If you are looking for something a little larger, that can be used both on the clit and internally—pick up a classic, Old School vibe.
3. If wand vibes are not your style then try the always popular bullet vibes. They are remote controlled, have many speeds and can be used on the inside or outside.
4. Almost all vibes require batteries (the ones that don’t are called dildos). So be sure to stock up. You wouldn’t want your buzz to go bland at the last minute.
5. If you want to emulate penetrative sex, get a small dildo (like 5 to 6 inches and under). A normal guy is 5 to 7 inches, so a smaller dildo can be just like having sex.
6. Lube is the most important thing you can have. You can use it with toys or even just your fingers. It helps you get wet when you can’t get there on your own. Try a water-based lube.
7. Pick up a book—exploring your body is great and nothing will replace hands-on experience (literally), but a sex how-to book like "Touch Me There" that can teach you more than a thing or two. Even when you’re experienced, you should always try and expand your sexual knowledge.
8. Romance yourself—break out the candles or take a bubble bath before getting into action.
9. The anal area is very erogenous, meaning it’s quite orgasmic. If you want to check this out, you can pick up a beginners butt plug (3 to 5 inches). Make sure you use anal lube (which is thicker than water-based lube) and go very slowly. Never try to jam the whole thing in and be gentle with yourself. If it makes you feel weird or uncomfortable, stop and try it another time.
10. If you do happen to decide you want to have sex, be prepared and have condoms. You never know when you may make this decision and you can’t rely on the guy—be responsible and carry them in your purse. Just make sure they don’t get exposed to heat or expire.