Steps to Get Her to Watch Porn
So you want to get her to watch porn? Not always the easiest conversation to have, but there are some things you can do to improve your chances. Here are some pointers to help you along the way.
1. Strategize
If you haven't watched porn with your significant other and you want to, then it's probably because you think she's going to have objections. Figure out what they might be and how you can overcome them in a positive manner. The most important thing is not to make her feel guilty for not agreeing to watch porn with you because then she'll become resentful of both you and porn.
2. Ask
It seems obvious, but a lot of people think porn is something to hide. Your first order of business is to find out if she is open to the idea, what her feelings are about porn and what her feelings are about you watching porn. If you're in a relationship with someone who's secure and level-headed, asking certainly can't hurt. The worst thing that will happen is she says no.
3. Be respectful
The worst thing you can do with this or any other sexual request is to be a dick about it. Don't be forceful, negative or disrespectful. These tactics may get you what you want, but they won't make for an enjoyable experience. As with any sexual experience, you want both parties to be comfortable because then both parties enjoy it. Treating her as an equal and respecting her feelings will get you closer to the end goal and will make sure the request doesn't hurt you if she says no.
4. If she has objections, find out why
A lot of people, have objections about porn because they have pre-conceived notions about what it is. They may think it's demeaning to women, disgusting, against their religious or moral beliefs, etc. You, as someone who watches porn, obviously disagree and for good reason. Don't get into an argument about it, but try to convince her these notions aren't necessarily true and back it up with evidence. Knowing any objections will help you get around them and convince her porn is sexy, fun and perfectly normal form of entertainment to enjoy.
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5. Make her feel secure
It's perfectly normal for a woman to feel insecure because she sees a bunch of made-up women with plastic surgery that she feels she can't compete with. It's your job to make sure she feels positively about the experience of potentially watching porn. Make sure she knows you don't care about the women on the screen, that you think she's beautiful and don't compare her to porn stars, unless you do so favorably.
6. Find out what she likes
She may not know what she likes when it comes to porn (or better yet, maybe she does), but she definitely knows what turns her on. Having this conversation will help you choose wisely when you're selecting something to watch. Obviously, it's pretty helpful for your sexual chemistry, too.
7. Get some women-friendly porn
The porn you like and the porn that women may potentially find appealing are probably two drastically different things. A woman new to porn doesn't want to see a gonzo title full of double anal and DP scenes. She's going to be more receptive to something with a story, that's well shot and focuses on intimacy as much as it does sex. Your best bet is probably something by Wicked or Vivid. Or better yet...
8. Choose movies together
Making her part of the process is a nearly fool-proof way to make sure both parties get something they'll enjoy. It can also be fun. Don't take her to some seedy sex shop, though. Make sure you go to a female-friendly store or, just search online together and watch adult movies via VOD (cideo on demand).
9. Add wine
It's no secret people become less inhibited when there's a little alcohol involved. This isn't an excuse for you to force porn or anything else on her, but some social lubricant can definitely help ease her into the situation and make it more fun.
10. Make porn a regular part of your sex life
If you've cleared all the hurdles and it turns out she's into watching porn, make it a regular thing. Not only will it help spice up your sex life, but it may lead her to try some things she didn't know she wanted to.